"The deepest need of humanity
is for salvation from sin. This is the quandary to which
the gospel speaks. The church that forgets the gospel
of salvation is finally not the church but its shadow.
The church that becomes focused upon maintaining itself
instead of the gospel becomes a dead branch of a living
vine. The church is imperiled when it becomes intoxicated
with the spirit of its particular age, committed more
to serve the gods of that age than the God of all ages"
~ Augustine,
CG IV, NPNF 1.II,
pp. 64-83; Kierkegaard,
Judge For Yourselves!; Two Ages
Workable Evangelism ConferencewithDr. Bob Pierson will be Saturday, August 28, 2010 from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. at Saint Paul's UMC in Ponca City. You can view the details for both the one-day event for clergy and lay leaders and the local church evangelism program here:
CANCELLATION OF STILLWATER DISTRICT MINISTRY ACADEMY
Greetings Friends,
We are cancelling the Stillwater District Ministry Academy, which was scheduled for July 31. more...
MEET THE NEW DS
Question & Answer Session with
David Wiggs more...
VISION FOR YOUR CHURCH
Team
of leaders at Cleveland UMC take what they have and make
the most of it. Donated fabric and talent make for a bright
and exciting worship area in the sanctuary. Call her for
details.
Cleveland
UMC, Pastor David Mingus
PRAYER STATIONS
Lisa
Crone, pastor at St. Paul’s UMC in Ponca City, shared
these ideas from their worship experiences. She is willing
to share ideas. In fact she and a team of laity are working
on a new contemporary and informal worship experience.
These
are photos of prayer stations based upon the Fruit of the
Holy Spirit that Rosemary Finch, one of our members put
together.
We
have an on-going focus on the fruit of the Holy Spirit
as we seek to become a more fruitful congregation.
I
thought you might like to put this on the District web
site as an idea for other churches to use.
INTERESTING WAYS TO USE TECHNOLOGY
IN
EVANGELISM & SERMON PRESENTATION
Sungsu
Hwang is the pastor at Chandler UMC. Here are two examples
of his media ministries, one a sermon illustration and one
announcing a Lenten ministry. Contact him for ideas!
Tee-ology
Video
Seven
Signs Video
Resources for A Capitol Campaign
This
is developed by congregation of staff working together to
raise funds for The Welcome/Hospitatlity Center at Ponca
City First UMC, a second phase campaign. It is well done!
Call and find out other information that might be helpful
for you!
"Let's
Finish the Race"!
Signs
Here
is a great way to put inexpensive signs in our church buildings.
Hope if you are considering new signs you will contact Shannon
Freeman, Lay Leader at Chandler United Methodist Church.
"Signs"
Debbie
Acord is on the Internet at www.onthewallgraphics.com.
Her email is tacord@brightok.net If
you send her a picture and the wording, she can superimpose
it on the wall and send it back to you. She ships all over
the country and is reasonable and quick. These signs can
be peeled off without hurting the paint or wall. She will
be at Affair of the Heart in OKC in October.
Random Acts of Kindness
"Gaining
Momentum To Change The World"
"Let
no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.
Be the living expression of God's kindness: kindness in your
face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile" -
Mother Teresa
Alton
Carter, Youth Director at First United Methodist Church,
has developed a Random Acts of Kindness program for his youth
group. This group has been active in ministering to the needs
of those with ill spouses, providing services to the local
school district, providing service to the church, and collecting
food for the local storehouses. In addition, the youth members
have been commissioned to continue this practice in their
own lives and challenged to complete over 2,000 acts within
a certain time period. Their experience will end with a meal
served to the Faith class, their group home friends, and
the church choir.
Doing
random acts for people is a great way to build stronger relationships
among youth and is an exciting way to reach out to the others.
It initiates the beginning of new relationships and demonstrates
that God has called us to serve those outside our inner circle.
And when we do so, lives change. It may be the one thing
that shows them that God loves them, and it may inspire them
to get involved and do the same for others. Challenging our
youth to do random acts not only helps build character but
also trains them how we should live.
Living
a life that is pleasing to God is not intended to be complicated.
It is simply a matter of doing the right things. When we
do nice things for others, it generally makes us feel good
about ourselves. Seeing people smile after receiving acts
of kindness also brings joy to their hearts and our own hearts
long after. We should never get tired of doing the right
thing.
"Day
as a Disciple"
A walk with Jesus
The
"Day as a Disciple" event began on September 6th
at 10:00 p.m. Approximatley 34 youth gathered at Sourthern
Heights Methodist. At 11:00 p.m. we gathered together to
take communion. On this evening we decided to experience
communion like the Disciples did with Jesus so we folded
the legs under the table and laid them on the floor and covered
them with brown paper. We kneeled down on our sleeping bags
Steve Roach told taught us the Passover, the last supper
and what Jesus life was like before he died.
On
September 7th, the day began at 6:00 in the morning with
the youth cleaning shelves, tables and washing dishes. After
cleaning the church the group of youth and parents walked
to Whispering Hills where they picked up trash around the
entire aparment complex.
After
picking up trash we walked to the fire station located on
South Main and pulled weeds out of the flower beds. Next
the youth and adults washed several fire trucks and emergency
vehicles.
Then
walked to the Salvation Army Church located on Lowry Street
where the kids sorted and boxed over ten thousand canned
goods.
We
then walked to couch park where several parents were waiting
for us with sandwiches, fruit, and cookies for us to eat.
We spent some time together playing football and fellowshipping
together before headed back toward the church.
Once
we arrived at the church we gathered together for a bible
study. We discussed that being a disciple of Christ takes
sacrifice and commitments and often leads us to think of
others before ourselves. Jesus spent a lot of time traveling
to different places meeting the needs of others. We spent
the day serving God and tryping to experience what life may
have been like walking with Jesus. Although we could not
truly experience what it was like to be a disciple years
ago, Jesus was with us and we saw him in each other and in
those that we werved. Thirtyseven of us walked almost six
miles and participated in several acts of random kindness
and were blessed by the Day as a Disciple walk.
First
United Methodist Church Youth Activities
Day as a disciple
walk
Cleaned Church
Picked up trash at low income apartment
complex
Pulled weeds at Fire Station
Washed fire trucks
Sorted and boxed up canned goods at Salvation
Arm Church
Cleaned desks
at Stillwater Middle School
Visited a lady
with terminally ill spouse
Washed and cleaned
church vehicles
Wrote letter
to parents
Help Adult Sunday
school class with pumpkin patch sale
gave away free coffee and water at pumpkin
sale
Organized hotdog
cook-out for Stillwater Group Home clients and staff
Examples
of Random Acts
Sincerely
compliment a stranger.
Write a
thank you note to someone.
Look for
something around you that can be fixed up, picked up,
or attended to, put shopping carts up, pick up some trash
laying around, pick up something that has fallen over.
Send handmade
cards or a letter to someone you care for.
Write a
note to management or someone who has treated you nice
while doing their job (waiter, clerk, sales person...etc).
When you
go somewhere to eat or do something, ask someone around
you if you can pick up, drop off or do something for
them while you do.
Cut coupons
out and leave them at the grocer register for others.
Cut an
article out of the newspaper that would interest a friend
and mail it to them.
Leave a
"Have a nice day" sticker at a front desk.
Put together
a writing kit with stationery, envelopes and stamps,
pen and give to hospital/ursing home residents.
Put a comment
on someone's webpage that you really like...let them
know you enjoy it.
Send a
card to someone in the military overseas.
Start a
conversation up with a co-worker that you don't know.
Leave something
cheery or nice for all your co-workers (in spring bag
of seeds, fun post its, fun office supplies).
Put change
in a row of vending machines.
Visit a
nursing home. Spend time visiting with someone who doesn't
get visitors.
Put something
you no longer need on Craig's list free spot for your
area.
Leave something
for someone at an area where it most might be used, (book
in reading area, umbrella near door on rainy day).
Leave a
book you have already finsihed somewhere for someone
else to read.
Drop off
a toy or game at a hospital.
Drop off
a toy or game at a homeless shelter.
At post
office leave some extra stamps at the stamp machine.
Send a
picture you have taken which includes a friend and send
it to him or her with a note remembering when it was
taken.
Buy a phone
card and give to a homeless shelter for them to give
to someone.
Open the
phone book, pick a name and sned them something (movie
tickets, thank you card, you are appreciated car, book,
etc.) anonymously.
Take flowers
to a hospital ward and give them to someone who hasn't
had any visitors.
Take some
cake, chocolates, flowers etc, to the neighbors, or a
senior citizen nearby.
Send someone
a small gift anonymously.
Make a
CD of your favorite songs and give to a friend.
Donate
one hour of your time if you offer a service for a living,
or one product, or one seminar, or one class, or just
one of whatever it is thta you do as a gift to someone
else.
Invite
someone who is alone over for dinner.
Share a
comic strip or something funny with someone else.
Leave a
chocolate for a co-worker.
Write a
note, send a e-greeting "just to say hello" to
someone who might need a pick me up.
Visit hospitals
with smiles, treats and friendly conversation for patients.
Send a
thank you to the employees at a hospital, or anywhere
else that a cheerful thank might add a smile.
Put a quarter
in a parking meter that has expired.
Write a
thank-you note to a person from your past who has made
a difference in your life.
Drop off
a plant, flowers or apple pie at a public service organization
or your neighbor's house.
Send someone
an animated greeting card on the internet.
Write a
note to the boss of someone who has helped you, praising
the employee.
Drop off
teddy bear to police department to give to traumatized
children.
Drop a
few coins in an area where children play, where they
can easily find them.
Copy a
favorite recipe and give it to someone.
Buy a copy
of your favorite book and donate it to your local library
or hospital.
Write letters
of appreciation to groups who are helping the community,
the environment, etc.
Send a
card to a friend or relative you haven't seen for some
time. Include a photo of yourself and/or your family.
Make a
point of introducing yourself to someone you see all
of the time but never say hello to.
Send an
anonymous scratch card, lottery or theatre ticket to
someone you know - or a gift voucher, a funny card, a
chocolate bar, or whatever you feel they would enjoy.
If you
know someone who is having a hard time financially, pop
a $5, $10, or $20 note in an envelope, disguise your
writing or type the envelope, and post it to them.
Offer to
baby sit.
Donate
clothes to goodwill.
Put change
in a chairty change bottle.
Bring cookies
or some snacks to work for office.
Drop off
cookies at a random establishment.
Tape some
change to a payphone with a card saying it is for whoever
needs it.
Write anonymous,
loving post-its for strangers to find.
"Love Wraps" program
of Kellyville UMC
“Love
Wraps” is an outreach to our surrounding community,
providing clothing for anyone with that need. The program
is headed up by Patsy Hollingshad and her daughter, Tiffany
Beem. Various other ladies assist with regulars being Darlene
Watashe, Judy Romine and Alice Widdoes.
Clothing donations are accepted from the community, sorted
and displayed for “shoppers”. (This is much more
work than it sounds like.)
At the beginning of each school year we especially focus
on needs of school age children, providing all essentials
including underclothes, socks and coats with much of this
being financed through our Benevolence fund.
This program was began in the early 1990’s, being set
up weekly in our fellowship hall. It soon outgrew that and
in 1994 we added about 800 square feet on to our main building
for this program. The program has been quite successful,
growing to serve 50 to 85 individuals every Saturday, making
the available space difficult to operate out of.
So, this year, we have constructed a 1900 square foot building
(see photo's) to be dedicated to this outreach. With the
opening of the new facility, plans are to serve to public
twice weekly, (Wednesday and Saturday).
A majority of the construction was accomplished by volunteer
labor from our Church family and assistance from a few community
friends.
In addition to the Clothing program, Patsy and Tiffany organize
a “Christmas Basket” program
each year, out of this facility, providing, literally a “pickup
load”of food and other necessities to each of 12 to
15 of the neediest families in our community.
Kellyville
UMC New Building
Youth Ministry Report Ponca
City Asbury
A
couple of years ago, when I was asked to take on our youth
program at Asbury UMC, I said two things: “I can’t
do it alone”, and “kids are messy”. Since
that time, I have drawn the distinct conclusion that no,
I can’t do it alone, and yes, kids are messy.
We
began building our youth program by canvassing the neighborhood
around the church in order to meet all of our neighbors.
Eventually, our youth group grew from just a handful of kids,
into an average attendance of just over 40. Of these kids,
80% of them do not have parents who go to church, over 50%
of them live with either mom or dad – not both.
We
have become friends with students facing so many struggles
in their lives. More than one girl has been molested. One
girl struggles with bipolar disorder, has thoughts of suicide,
and cuts herself. One of our boys is struggling to get off
of drugs. Another won’t accept a ride home because
he’s embarrassed for anyone to see where he lives.
Many kids have been sexually active. All of them call Asbury
home.
This
year, we have given these kids several opportunities to deepen
their relationships with Jesus Christ. In April, we took
30 kids to Acquire the Fire in Tulsa, OK. This was the first
time many of them had seen so many Jesus seekers in one place.
In the summer, we held our third-annual Reality Weekend Extreme
Retreat. During this weekend, we spent our time doing devotions,
worship, and as a service project, we painted the Kaw City
UMC parsonage.
Our
ministry goes beyond our Wednesday evening service and special
activities. We also use the internet to communicate with
our students. We have developed a website and myspace page
in order to share news, prayer requests, and special announcements.
Our main objective is to stay in contact with the teens throughout
the week in order to further support them in their commitments.
Our volunteer staff has also become versed in other technologies
such as text messaging in order to better communicate with
our teens.
The
most important thing we have done this year is with commitment.
Several kids have deepened their relationships with Jesus
Christ as evidenced through our many baptisms and professions
of faith. We have also had several kids join our church membership.
Our
youth program has grown immensely since our small beginning.
We have done it as a church. Many of our church membership
have stepped in to help us grow our youth ministry in many
ways. And, I’ll say it again…yes, kids are messy.
But it is worth it.